Plan layer: run provider plan servers, add provider planning to simulate

[haarchri]

What

Implement the provider layer from the accepted design (crossplane/cli#181,design/one-pager-cli-simulate.md): run provider packages as local plan servers and route rendered/input MRs to them, upgrading both simulate commands from client-side diffs to provider-computed plans.

Blocked on the crossplane/upjet PlanService design PR. this issue follows whatever that review approves. crossplane/upjet#694

Scope:

• Image sources. Project dependsOn for project simulate; providers installed on the current cluster context for resource simulate; --provider-images overrides either. The override only changes the image list, never routing.
• Container orchestration. Start each provider image with its internal plan-server entrypoint as a local Docker container, following render's runtime conventions (pull policy, cleanup on exit). Deterministic container names derived from the image digest. --keep-plan-servers leaves containers running for later runs to reuse; a changed image never matches a stale server.
• Routing. Call each server's GetInfo, build the routing table from declared API groups. A resource with no route is detected up front.
• Matching. Match rendered to live composed resources by the crossplane.io/composition-resource-name annotation, falling back to group/kind/name; merge the live MR's external-name annotation and status into the request. Live resources with no rendered counterpart enter the plan as deletes.
• Rendering responses. Field changes inline in CRD terms, sensitive values redacted, computed values as (known after apply), replacement warnings inline, provider diagnostics under their resource. Replaces counted separately in the summary (N requires replacement) with the wedge warning from the design.
• Fallback. A resource with no plan server gets the client-side diff, marked [?], with the closing approximate warning. --skip-plan skips the plan layer entirely (no containers start).
• Provider upgrade preview. resource simulate --all --provider-images <image>: enumerate managed resources of the served groups from the cluster, plan each with its own spec as desired and itself as live; anything that is not a no-op is a finding.

Acceptance criteria

• Both simulate commands produce provider-computed plans for resources whose provider serves the plan protocol, and [?] client-side diffs for the rest, in one run.
• Routing comes only from GetInfo; no image-name parsing, no registry queries.
• --provider-images, --skip-plan, --keep-plan-servers behave as documented; leftover containers follow the naming scheme and are reused only on digest match.
• --all previews a provider upgrade with zero cloud API calls and no cloud credentials.
• Replaces are counted separately and never presented as destroy-and-recreate; the unsynced-until-replaced warning prints.
• JSON/YAML output includes actions, field changes, replace information, and diagnostics, sufficient for a PR bot to gate on "any replace anywhere".

Out of scope

• The PlanService protocol and server implementation feat(design): a plan service for upjet providers upjet#694
• Non-upjet providers serving plans

Dependencies

Depends on the project simulate #367 and resource simulate #368 issues, and on the approved upjet PlanService design.