fix(mcp): recover unsent requests after daemon loss

[Pxx500]

this pull request was generated entirely by AI
i can't guarantee its quality, but i've tried to make it as good as possible
i'm happy to revise it if it doesn't meet the repository's standards

What does this PR do?

recovers the stdio MCP frontend when its shared daemon disappears before an application frame is sent
the runtime now reports whether the frame crossed the local transport, which lets the frontend restore its session and retry exactly once only when replay is safe
regression coverage includes daemon replacement, cancellation during reconnect, and shutdown ownership during reconnect

related to #1182

Checklist

• Every commit is signed off (git commit -s) (required, CI rejects unsigned commits; DCO, see CONTRIBUTING.md)
• Tests pass locally (make -f Makefile.cbm test)
• Lint passes (make -f Makefile.cbm lint-ci)
• New behavior is covered by a test (reproduce-first for bug fixes)

[github-actions]

Thanks for opening this — it has been seen, and it is queued.

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Current review status: working through a backlog. 0.9.1-rc.1 is out, so the release freeze that held reviews is over — but it left a large queue of open pull requests behind it, and we are reading through them oldest-first. The background is in discussion #1144.

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[Pxx500]

it looks like the three failed checks came from a race condition, could you please rerun the failed jobs?